Listen: I know you're going to support Black business (and your girl) by buying Derrick Barnes'"Crown: An Ode to the Fresh Cut," the latest offering from my imprint Denene Millner Books. But you can win a second copy in this Goodreads giveaway. Click the link and follow the directions for your chance to win.
On this powerhouse list: Toni Morrison. Nikki Giovanni. Ta'Nahesi Coates. Dick Gregory. AND DERRICK BARNES' "Crown: An Ode to the Fresh Cut," the picture book next up on Denene Millner Books. Marinate on that: this children's book is being hailed as the kidlit version of pure brilliance. I keep trying to tell y'all: let it bless your life--and your bookshelves. Congrats, Derrick! Buy "Crown" here: http://bit.ly/CrownDMB
Bill and Marvin decided that the best way to respond to the exultation they saw after King was killed was to outpace the whites. It was not enough to outrank their classmates by a few decimal points; it had to be clear and unquestionable who was best. So they pulled away. Bill and Marvin were the top two students in their class their entire four years at V.E.S. They became the head counselors in the dorm. They were on the football team, which won a state prep-school championship, the first integrated team to do so, a year before the public-school team made famous by “Remember the Titans.” “Those white boys knew,” Marvin told me. <--This is an INCREDIBLE story--and gorgeously written. God bless each one of these men, thrown in the lion's den, only to emerge the victors, each in their own way.
New York-based educator, poet and writer DuEwa Frazier put together a kick-butt list of great ways engaged parents can get their children to be reading rock stars. Check out these fantastic tips.
"In short order, not only did young Quincy get an early lesson in injustice, but he also got a searing taste of a tried-and-true American dictum: Black lives don’t matter (also, the criminal-justice system protects white men; also, nooses are just play things for silly kids; also, white kids who make mistakes will be protected; also, your body is less important than someone else’s “future;” also, racism is OK; also, you’re not safe)."
The passionate plea I gave during a recent National Book Club Conference panel on the state of black children’s books is one I’ve long made: that it’s high time Black parents embrace the idea that the most thoughtful, educational, beautiful gift one can give to kids is black children’s books. An audience member HEARD me and responded in a way that blew me away: she donated $1,000 to get Denene Millner Books into the hands of 100 children here in GA. YES!
The passionate plea I gave during a recent National Book Club Conference panel on the state of black children's books is one I've long made: that it's high time Black parents embrace the idea that the most thoughtful, educational, beautiful gift one can give to kids is black children's books. It's a simple concept, really, but it still strikes some parents as an extravagant expenditure: who, after all, has $17.99 to spend on a picture book? [ 375 more words ]
Oh heeeeeey: "CROWN: An Ode to the Fresh Cut," Derrick Barnes' new picture book celebrating how little boys feel when they climb into the barber's chair to get fly, is on deep discount at Amazon. What you waiting for? Get the pre-order price. You want this Denene Millner Books offering on your baby's bookshelf. Ask Publisher's Weekly, Kirkus, Booklist and the School Library Journal, all of which gave "CROWN" ridiculously dope reviews. YES!
This. Right. Here. I need it. I want it. Gotta have it. Because my squad is BAE.
Yessssssssss! Meeting the babies where they are, appealing to their interests and natural rhythms will help them bring home the win--every single time. AND MyBrownBaby assistant editor Ida Harris wrote that home run!
Yo, I completely remember the day in sixth grade when a classmate, Kim, got her period for the first time. It was still warm out—summertime—and she was wearing white pants. All the boys were pointing, the girls were equal parts giggly/terrified. And poor Kim, already the class outcast because she was quiet and poor and considered not-so-cute, had one more thing to overcome: the embarrassment of getting her period and having everyone know it. I was so sad for her that day. And paranoid that the same thing would happen to me. I let that be a lesson and put together my own ragtag kit from an assortment of pads I collected from a kit my mom bought for me at the behest of our health teacher. And when my own daughters started going through their own puberty phase, I tucked a similar kit in their book bags just in case, so that they wouldn’t be caught in the hallway like Kim was back in the day. I was reminded of this when I saw this dope @AmazeParents period kit how-to graphic that helps us moms get those period supplies together with the same get-to-it that we have when it comes to stocking backpacks with pencils and notebooks for back-to-school season. Check out "Puberty in Girls: Getting Your Period" video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RX4NJrJxwss), too, for great info on how to get your baby—and you—ready. Because you know, if you stay ready, then you don’t need to get ready. Share this post with your parent friends/communities to help prepare girls with the supplies/info they need! #AmazeBTS
Another starred review for "Crown: An Ode to the Fresh Cut"—this one from Publisher's Weekly! #DeneneMillnerBooks Did. Not. Come. To. Play. With. You. Congrats to @raisingthemighty, dealer of dope words, and @gordonjamesfineart, pusher of dope arts. Grace your baby's bookshelves—they deserve to wear the Crown! Buy it here: http://bit.ly/CrownDMB
"He’s decided to boycott & I’ve got his back. No fantasy football for me this year. No hot wings, potato salad and margaritas during Sunday football fundays. I hope more families at least engage in the conversation about boycotting. I get it. Boycotting is not for everyone. But I think it’s important to start a dialogue about what’s going on, why it’s going on and why it’s unjust. We need to be mindful of the industries we as Black people support with our money, time and passion."
NFL Boycott: Why We Won’t be Yelling “Touchdown” on Sundays
"The findings from the study reinforce the idea that young children have an easier time exporting what they learn from a fictional storybook to the real world when the storybook is realistic. The leap from a fictional human to a real one is simply smaller than the leap from an anthropomorphic raccoon to a human. But it could be that as children grow older they become better at making these leaps, or that parents can help them make the leaps more readily." Now imagine what a book featuring realistic Black characters doing everyday things does for brown babies. When you see yourself, you celebrate the good in you. The beauty of you. The God in you. Say word. #DeneneMillnerBooks
Dear Black parents: If you are planning a movie run with the youngins to see "Detroit"—don’t. This is definitely not the film you want to use for a bonding or teaching moment. Know this: the film is everything vile, disgusting, and bastardly that we already know about whiteness, filmed in High Definition (HD). It optimizes brutish police violence inflicted on young innocent Black bodies and magnifies their angst. Neither the babies nor you need to see this. Trust. Ida Harris breaking down the new film "Detroit," so it'll forever be broke, today on MyBrownBaby.
"It’s not enough to talk the talk. I’d like to see some influence others to walk the walk, to speak out and act boldly against racial bias as well, instead of leaving it up to big business exploitation to merely spark these conversations in the name of selling more soap, more detergent, more diapers, and even more bullshit to fill them up." The homie, Ida Harris, making it plain.
"There’s a Dragon in My Closet," the latest offering from the Denene Millner Booksimprint, penned by Dorothea Taylor and illustrated by the incredible Charly Palmer, is in stores today! Three cheers for invisible friends—and especially the beauty of Black children’s imaginations, celebrated in these pages. Links to buy copies for your babies, yo nephews and nieces, your local library and daycare center, your neighbor's grands, your church youth ministry room and everybody else are in the link. #SupportBlackBooks #WeNeedDiverseBooks #BlackBoyJoy
Happy Book Birthday "There's a Dragon in My Closet," Plus, Goodnight, MyBrownBaby!
"But for black girls, home is both refuge and where your most intimate betrayals happen. You cannot turn off that setting. It is the dining room at your family’s house, served with a side of your uncle’s famous ribs. Home is where they love you until you’re a ho."
"My new novel portrays a young boy’s emotional, heteroflexible sex life — and I’d like young people to read it. But it’s being published for adults, partly because the guardians of young people’s literature get so easily riled up about sex, preferring to recommend, say, books about teenagers slaughtering one another in a post-apocalyptic landscape, rather than books about kids masturbating at home."
News of a lawsuit accusing Usher of infecting a partner with herpes, and the woman's decision to have sex with him despite that she allegedly saw green discharge on his, well, you know, should have ALL of us thinking about sexual health. And parents should be having that same conversation with our kids, equipping them with knowledge on sexually transmitted disease (STD) and the discernment they need to protect themselves, and others, from experiencing sexual napalm. Ida Harris breaks it down, today on MyBrownBaby.
"We love mothers, or at least we say we do, and we claim that motherhood is as American as apple pie.
We’re lying. In fact, we’ve structured health care so that motherhood is far more deadly in the United States than in other advanced countries. An American woman is about five times as likely to die in pregnancy or childbirth as a British woman — partly because Britain makes a determined effort to save mothers’ lives, and we don’t."
Popped over to Amazon to have a look at "There's a Dragon in My Closet," the latest on the Denene Millner Books line. It's #23 on the best-selling children's African American story books—two weeks before officially being in book stores. YES! Keep it coming. Have you ordered your copy yet? Bless yo baby's bookshelves with this little chocolate drop and his mischievous dragon!
"The problem, however, is that every time we insist that the gates of innocence open to children of color, we limit ourselves by language, a “frame,” as the linguist George Lakoff would say, that is embedded in racism. When we argue that black and brown children are as innocent as white children, and we must, we assume that childhood innocence is purely positive. But the idea of childhood innocence itself is not innocent: It’s part of a 200-year-old history of white supremacy.
It’s time to create language that values justice over innocence...."
I had an INCREDIBLE conversation about Black motherhood on NPR's "On Point," centered on what it means to have Beyoncé and #SerenaWilliams put their pregnancies and new mom pics on display. Our collective take (shout out to co-conspirator and passionate activist Gloria Malone): Beyoncé and Serena's celebration of motherhood humanizes Black moms and helps to tamp down stereotypes about how we make, raise and love our babies. Indeed, the discussion is the very foundation of my website, MyBrownBaby, and my new book, "MyBrownBaby: On the Joys and Challenges of Raising African American Children." Curious thing, though: the host, Tom Ashbrook, took callers and of all those who had questions and comments, the two Black men who got on the line spent all their energy saying our conversation and observations were a waste of time, irrelevant and unfounded. Of course, I let them have it because... Denene. But what on earth would possess two Black men to take time out of their busy day to pick up a phone, find the studio number, wait on hold to be picked to talk, and then spend precious time and breath saying the concerns of Black moms do not matter? That Black women do not matter? I held my own, but truly, I'm absolutely floored when Black men REFUSE to understand how the intersection of race and gender--and the stereotypes, pain, devaluation and harm that comes from it--harm us, their sisters. It immediately made me think of how we grappled with this very topic--the imbalance of Black men's support of Black women compared to how hard we go in supporting Black men--on a recent episode of A Seat At The Table (http://www.gpb.org/television/shows/a-seat-at-the-table/episode/7edfb6bb-3534-474b-acd9-7ea3e07a2123#.WXH0xWmpkN0.link) I invite you to listen and watch.
"I plan to use my reparations by running the errands I hate. On Friday evening, when each child wants a different takeout dinner, I will be in the passenger seat playing license plate games. She will drive me to the nail salon and doctor appointments and wait in the car (check emails or bring your laptop as I have done while waiting for you many times, my darling). I may even spend my reparation driving time sitting in the back seat talking about my day. Oh, the possibilities!" Kimberly Seals Allers is genius. So too, apparently, is Totally Lila, who is so up on game, she's straight dragging her feet getting that license. She ain't slick.
Yes, absolutely, we've talked about Jay and Bey incessantly. But I'm loving this perspective from Keka Araújo in her debut piece for MyBrownBaby. The jist: it's time we all stopped pointing fingers and actually TALKING to one another about what we want and what we're capable of giving—and acting accordingly. Check out Keka's perspective, today on MyBrownBaby.
I legit read this story waiting for the paragraph laying out how a group of daddies, uncles, boy cousins and the like beat the shit out of this pedophile and got their girls' back. But I see folks still out here treating this trash like he's Boko Haram—like he can destroy entire villages in one fell swoop and not be held accountable for the crimes he's committed across swaths of communities. What. The. Hell. Is. So. Magical. About. This. Negro. That. He. Ain't. Had. Some. Hood. Justice. Yet? Better yet, why are we not protecting Black girls from this menace to society?
"Mystic Valley has put out a statement in defense of its dress code policy, stating that the restrictions on hair extensions exist so that the school can promote equity. Hair extensions — it reads — can be expensive." BRUH. This has to be the most ridiculous, boneheaded logic I've EVER heard for why Black girls are being barred from wearing their hair as they see fit. Like, really? REALLY?!
"I have done all I could over the years. But, as the saying goes, I refuse to light myself on fire to keep anyone warm." Sili M. Recio's heartbreaking truth is full of much-needed lessons. Whoo! Hello, Good Morning.
“They would prefer to be ‘all lives matter,’ because then their child is included in the conversation about mattering,” she said. “What they don’t think is, would a black mother feel like her child matters, based upon the way that history, the nation, the city, the institutional structures, have treated her child? That’s not the process they’re using.”
Listen: Yaba Blay loves us. And in my book, she is a national treasure. Get you some of her soul food.
Heart. Melt. Though I would argue that this isn't ALL we Black moms talk about to our children—there is plenty of JOY to be had in raising brown babies, and boy it would be nice to see that every once in a while—I appreciate the points being made here.
Our friends over at Here Wee Read are offering this awesome Prime Day coupon code at checkout to save $5.00 off your purchase of $15.00 or more for diverse books: PRIMEBOOKS17. The coupon is only valid to use one time per account and it is not available to use on any digital content. The coupon code will expire at 11:59pm PT on July 12, 2017. Use it to snap up every last one of the Denene Millner Books, including two incredible new offerings featuring BLACK BOY characters: Derrick Barnes' upcoming "CROWN: An Ode to the Fresh Cut" (featured in this link) and Charly Palmer's "There's a Dragon In My Closet." Don't miss out: you want these on your baby's bookshelves, and who doesn't love a sale? (Also incredibly excited to see a new book illustrated by the incredible and prolific Vanessa Newton, who did all of the beautiful artwork for "Early Sunday Morning," my children's book, which you totally need to add to your collection, too!) #weneeddiversebooks #BlackBoyJoy #SupportBlackAuthors!
Just agreed in principle to a new deal on the Denene Millner Books imprint, making it possible for a new African American author and an incredible African American illustrator—both women—to bring a beautiful children's board book to your baby's bookshelves. YES!!!!!!!!!!!! #BlackGirlMagic #ForTheBabiesAndTheCulture #WeNeedDiverseBooks #AndImGivingThemToYouStraightNoChaser
"Give kids credit," says Stan Yogi, one of the authors on our list. "They have an innate sense of what's right and what's wrong. Being able to draw on that innate sense of justice through relatable stories is so important."
Can't make it to my reading on Saturday? No worries--I got you! Come see me in BING on Sunday! Story time starts at 10 am; I'll be reading "Early Sunday Morning" and other favorites! Bring the babies!
Party people in Chicago: BRING THE BABIES to see me reading "Early Sunday Morning," the debut picture book on Denene Millner Books. This Saturday at 57th Street Books. 10:30 a.m. CDT. Treat yo'self!
Bring the babies to hear me read "Early Sunday Morning" and some of my other favorites at Charis Books' free story hour!
ATL: I'll be reading to the babies at Charis Books and More/Charis Circle tomorrow at 10:30 am! Bring the children to hear "Early Sunday Morning" and some of my other favorites! Meanwhile, listen to this NPR interview I did on the magnificent show, "City of Lights," talking about the joy and fear of singing solos, the beauty of Black families and my mission to bring more beautiful stories featuring Black characters to all babies.
By KIRSTEN WEST SAVALI My father, Theodore Joseph “Bubber” West, died on October 18, 2011. In retrospect, that brisk Tuesday morning was cruel in its normalcy, despite the sense of dread that crawled along my spine as soon as I opened my eyes. But no one or nothing could have prepared me for the day ahead. Barely a month had passed since we’d moved to Apple Valley, California, so I initially chalked up the uneasy feeling to being surrounded by the unfamiliar. [ 2,836 more words ]
OHMIGOD, y'all: I have a TV show, and it debuts this Sunday—a dream I've had since age 14, when I decided I wanted to be Sue Simmons so that I could meet Ralph Tresvant. (Long story.) This is really happening! What's more: it's a show on which Christine White, Monica Pearson and I are talking about subjects that matter to Black women, from an unapologetically Black perspective. It's nothing like you've ever seen before—and I'm a part of it, proudly! Join us tonight at 8 p.m. on Twitter to hear more about the show (follow #asatt to join the convo).
Y'all! I'm a co-host on A Seat At the Table, a revolutionary new weekly talk show on which my co-hosts Christine White, a prominent Atlanta attorney, and Monica Pearson, the legendary Atlanta news anchor, and I are raising our unapologetic, outspoken, intelligent voices on issues specific to Black women, shining a light on the diverse experiences, perspectives and challenges we face in our unique space—the things that matter to us. [ 901 more words ]
You Did It Your Way: He Never Came Home
Party people in Chicago: BRING THE BABIES to see me reading "Early Sunday Morning," the debut picture book on Denene Millner Books. June 24, 2017, at 57th Street Books.
This essay is one of several running on MyBrownBaby over the next few weeks in celebration of the release of He Never Came Home: Interviews, Stories, and Essays from Daughters on Life Without Their Fathers, edited by Regina R. Robertson (Agate Bolden, 2017). By CORI MURRAY I wouldn’t say that I hated my father, but there was definitely a time when I couldn’t have cared less if he was in my life. [ 4,296 more words ]
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